Thursday, December 25, 2014

Life Qualities : An actual reminder for the future me.



"If you’re surrounded with great people, 
then great people you will be. "


That’s the thing that I just realized right now. I realized how it affects me so much.. no matter how smart and passionate you are… no matter how diligent you are, if you’re alone… you’ll be just good. not great. 

Why?

The best people, gave you the best push… they will motivated you whether it’s intentional or not. You won’t believe how fantastic your environment could influence you…. It’s either they would support you through the things you think you can never endure. Complementing you in order for you to be confident in what you do. Or, they will be your role model… the figure that you’re routing for. You will idolize them so hard, that makes you want to be like them… do the best in order to be just as great as them.

I might not know it back then. 

But now I know, And for the sake of my newest discovery… I would try my hardest to be able to fit in. I am no social butterfly. Neither am I an outcast. I don’t alienated myself from people… but I do hang with just several people. Mostly the people I comfortable to be with…. I don’t have bestfriend. As simply as I don’t believe in the word “bestfriend”. I hang with everybody…. But just some of them who I considered my actual friend.

My point is,

If you happened to be a person who’s just seeking for a better change in your life…. Then start with changing the group of people you hang with. I’m not telling you to leave your friends and search for the new one… I believe you’re not that dumb. But, if you want to escalate your transformation.. it will be really helpful if you’re accompanied with the best people. For the sake of you, and your life qualities.



With the best love,
 Dee